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Six Months of Change…

Sunday, September 20th, 2009

So after a six month pause from writing at FnF I have to wonder if all of you really missed anything? Were the trappings of my mundane life followed by enough people that they were actually missed? That people actually wondered what I was doing and what was happening? Probably not…I’m realistic at least.

I will fill you in on some of the bigger details…

In April I turned 31 on a day that was so horribly over-scheduled there was hardly time to breathe. However for the first time in my life I taught a college course on that night after agreeing to present on information literacy and the role of the school administrator. While my teaching skills were a bit rusty, by the end of the evening I had warmed up and I would come to teach other classes when asked. It was good to remember how it felt to teach and I felt more inspired in my day to day work with libraries.

Max Cleaning Toys for Spring Play

Max Cleaning Toys for Spring Play

My biggest accomplishment during the month of April into early May was the completion of the SLMS 2009 Conference in Saratoga Springs, NY. This was the culmination of two years of planning as a conference co-chair and was by far the largest event I had ever planned. The weeks leading up to and following the conference were chaotic and I found myself with little time for anything else, but it was a wonderful experience to have been part of.

Meeting Gregory Maguire!

Meeting Gregory Maguire!

In May Catherine had her first dance recital. This was the first event of its kind for either side of the family and it was a good time. She was fabulous and performed a very energetic Hula Baby dance. She seems to like dance very much and will start classes again in the fall. Catherine\’s Dance Recital Video

In June, with little fanfare, Chuck celebrated his 35th birthday and Father’s Day on the same day. We also welcomed a new member into our family with the birth of my niece Erika.

Catherine Talking to Her Cousin Erika

Catherine Talking to Her Cousin Erika

Chuck and I took our first vacation without kids in July. It was an experiment both for us and for the kids that seemed to work really well. The kids spent a week with their grandparents, visiting playgrounds and museums in the area and enjoying Grandma and Grandpa’s swimming pool. We spent our time in the area around Cleveland and Sandusky Ohio touring the Rock n Roll Hall of Fame and Cedar Point Amusement Park. I think we all needed a break from one another and everyone seemed to have time to re-energize. Perhaps we can do it again another year.

Cat Plays with the Slinky Exhibit at the Strong Museum of Play

Cat Plays with the Slinky Exhibit at the Strong Museum of Play

For us, summer isn’t full of beach vacations and leisurely days enjoying the sunshine. We tend to march on with our regular routine, which is good to keep the kids on schedule but at times a bit pathetic when it comes to summer fun. This summer we spent a fair amount of time preparing Catherine for school in the fall and on September 8th she began kindergarten.

Catherines 2nd Day of School

Catherine's 2nd Day of School

It’s been bizarre to be involved with the school as a parent rather than a teacher. I’ve been amazed at the rapid flood of paper that arrives home on a daily basis, even in the 21st Century. However, I’m happy to report that thus far she seems to really enjoy school, although she does miss her daycare friends.  While I had a bit of fear and apprehension about sending her knowing she would be one of the youngest students in class, all of my fears were dismissed the first day of school when I watched her follow directions upon arriving in her classroom, listened to her talk to her teacher and her classmates, and watched her draw an incredible picture and write her name without assistance. As I looked around the room and saw other parents anxiously leaning over desks, drawing the assignment for their children or choosing to write their child’s name upon the paper to save time I realized that she would be just fine. There are definitely times that her independent streak works in her favor.

Do You Know Your Neighbors?

Friday, February 20th, 2009

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I’m sitting here watching my neighbors pack their belongings into a U-haul. I can only make the assumption that they are preparing to move out of their home. There’s been no indication before now that they’ve been intending to leave, the absence of a for sale sign in front of their house makes me wonder if the house is rental property. I could be nosy and go over there and start a conversation, but unfortunately I hardly know them. Other than a few rare occasions when they’ve brought us a piece of misdelivered mail we’ve never seen them up close. We don’t even know their name.

I realize that I don’t know any of my neighbors, and to some degree I find that unnerving. I grew up with neighbors that were close friends with my parents. They were included in family parties, took turns babysitting and shared fresh produce and meat. I know nothing of my neighbors. What a different world we live in!

I sometimes think back to the time that we moved into our home two and a half years ago. There was no welcome wagon, no neighbors coming to introduce themselves, baring casseroles as I’d always been told would happen. To be fair though, I didn’t go knocking on doors introducing myself either…even though I probably should have. While it seems a little late now to do so, I also wonder how many years I can live in a residence without at least knowing their name?

I wonder if others have had the same experience we have? Have the days of friendly neighborhoods raising children passed? Do we all prefer anonymity and isolation instead?

Ghosts of Christmas Past 2008

Thursday, December 18th, 2008

Here’s a link to last year’s post I did featuring photos from our previous Christmas’. All of the photos were in the digital era.

Here’s an update with photos from last year’s Christmas as we anxiously (some of us more than others!) await Christmas 2008.

Max Counts ALL the Christmas Candles

Catherine Wraps a Present for Papa

Catherine Wraps a Present for Papa

Catherine Studies the Tree

Catherine Studies the Tree

Decorated House

Decorated House

The Kiddos Build Their 1st Snowman

The Kiddos Build Their 1st Snowman

Cat & Papa with Aunt Pennies Gingerbread House

Cat & Papa with Aunt Pennie's Gingerbread House

Before Settling Down For The Night

Before Settling Down For The Night

Cookies and Beer for Santa

Cookies and Beer for Santa

Santa Came!

Santa Came!

Christmas Morning

Christmas Morning

Santa Brought a Train Table!

Santa Brought a Train Table!

Opening Stockings!

Opening Stockings!

A Race Track!

A Race Track!

Max Uses a Drill to Open His Presents

Max Uses a Drill to Open His Presents

The Kids Tear Into Presents at Grandmas

The Kids Tear Into Presents at Grandma's

We host our first Christmas Dinner

Family Plays Games at Our House. We hosted our First Christmas Dinner.

Will it really be fine in 2009?

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

2009

Last year I wrote this post about 2008. I wasn’t sure  what the year had in store for me, but I did know a few basic things. Overall it has been a good year, although admittedly the last month or two have been a bit rocky with budget woes at work.

This year I can think of the following:

  1. My baby will turn 3 years old on February 2nd! He is a real kid with personality, opinions and conversation!
  2. I will turn 31 on April Fool’s Day
  3. I will have a new niece or nephew in May! Yay!
  4. I will finally finish our statewide conference in April and remind myself not to ever sign up for such an endeavor again.
  5. Cat will begin kindergarten in September. Suddenly when I’m in a school building and see school aged kids they don’t seem so big to me anymore.
  6. Cat will turn 5 on October 1.
  7. Chuck will turn the big 35 on June 21st
  8. We will have been in our house for 3 years already. That’s usually the longest we ever stay anywhere…hmmmm..
  9. John will start his junior year of college
  10. Phil and Allison will celebrate their first wedding anniversary
  11. We will pay off several loans and one vehicle.
  12. My parents will be married for 52 years, my inlaws for nearly 40. Yikes!

There are many unknowns. I won’t say with certainty that I know about either one of our jobs, the economy is too rocky to make a steadfast prediction. Whatever 2008 brings I hope that I find the strength to meet the challenges ahead and that I enjoy the milestones along the way.